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"29-M-Peru. I will not disclose the particulars of my ailment but it was quite quick and vicious and involved multiple internal organs. In a span of two weeks I have lost 25 pounds and I am not an overweight man."
"I simply would like you to know I am content and my departure from Peru was fruitful."
"30-M-Colombia. How good it feels to type that phrase. It took slightly more time than expected but it is finally real. I am situated in my home, the car is here, no more boxes I am all moved in, my job is set up, I am set."
"This avoidant mentality led to my current standing, a 29 y/o white man working for 5 years in Peru with no real contact romantically or sexually with women."
"Anyway, seems like a pretty run-of-the-mill woman L, turns out I'm just like other girls. Anyone else here ever cucked themselves to this extent? (28/female/Peru)"
"I was informed by a woman on my date tonight that my home country is on the level of Peru in regards to women's bodily autonomy"
"30-M-Peru, for the last time. Many people have messaged me fearing that I may be in danger or some tragedy had befallen me as I have not posted in quite a while, at least comparatively to my normal "output". I am touched genuinely that so many strangers care for my well being, so thank you."
"29, White, Male, Peru expat. Over the last 3 weeks I have been on a plethora of dates after using dating apps for the first time with women ages ranging from 21 to 35 y/o."
"White man, 29, 5 years living in Peru. She a 35 y/o very experienced, witty and dastardly woman. A beauty of a buccaneer"
"Peru has been in a turbulent state of course but I am safe here in Colombia. Onto the update. I love this city. Quite a simple and not particularly interesting analysis I understand but that is my analysis nonetheless. Even when the situation in Peru stabilizes I am not sure I would want to return."
"30-M-Peru. I am not sure how it is being reported outside of the country but the political unrest here is becoming more volatile as of late. Cities and rural areas have had many violent clashes between the police and protestors. I have seen more and more armed masked men wandering the streets."
"29-M-Peru. I am dressed as Mario, my beloved is Daisy and not Princess Toadstool because she said that Daisy is more Latina coded."
"29-M-Peru. This will be the last time I type that exact phrase. Tomorrow I leave my third decade behind and begin the fourth. I admit I have been coy as to when I turn thirty as I am somewhat embarrassed that I share a birthday with the lord."
"29-M-Peru. Hello. I turn 30 in one week for all of you that constantly inquire about that. Easily the most asked question I receive. I feel strange I am having typical aging introspection. At the beginning of the year I did not drink and did not love. Now I partake in both and in excess at that."
"Peru has its 8th president in 10 years (our terms are 5 year long). His IG following was OF creators, his Twitter was full of gooner content and he has an ED."
"29-M-Peru. I must preface that though very hectic and emotionally draining the last few summer and spring months have been the highest quality of my life."
"30-M-Peru, barreling towards Colombia. I have stated this before but my goal is to be situated in Medellin as soon as possible. Immigrating into another country this quickly and at a time when many others are leaving Peru is already a nightmare but it seems the only way I can successfully bring both"
"29-M-Peru. I'm tired. So tired. I'm tired of having sex."
"29-M-Peru. The young man that I have become fast friends with is a good person... I am not sure how acceptable this is elsewhere but in Peru simply asking women out on spontaneous dates is fairly accepted."
"29-M-Peru. She does not forgive me and never will, again we were not exclusive at the time. She was standoffish the last week(s) then requested to search through my phone then did so against my well wishes while I slept and no doubt read old messages between myself and other women."
"29-M-Peru. This is all suddenly in the last two days. Yes this is the one we had sex with. It is really making me uncomfortable. Our agreement before explicitly had my girlfriend involved."
"30-M-Peru, still. As a brief life update, I will likely be able to secure three work visas and live in Medellin for at least six months."
"29/M/Peru. After telling a 21 y/o who I cared for that she was not the sole focus of my passion for the entirety of our time together I was cast aside. I understand her anger and my attempts at remediation were futile."
"29-M-Peru. Drunk again. I have never drank this volume and at this frequency in my life... These have been the best days I have ever had in this country. It took 5 years and until I was on the cusp of turning 30 yet it happened."
"29-M-Peru. Tonight I had decided during a rather pleasant date, at least initially, that I should take initiative and make her (Korean 28 y/o) my partner."
"29-Male-Peru. Over the weekend I partook in two separate dates with women, 24 and 27, that I have met off of dating apps."
"I am just now waking up after having dates yesterday with 3 different Peruvian women, my first dates in over 4 years living here. For my entire life I had assumed I was not compatible with women, my history with them was quite poor. Now I have no bearing as to what I can do or have been doing"
"29-M-Peru. He may be too strange. He is a very considerate, kind young man and funny too but he does have a sort of odd aura about him."
"29-M-Peru. The biggest difference so far being around these two women all the time is the alcohol. Boy do they enjoy drinking. When it was just my girlfriend she did not partake as much but the two of them together are absolute booze hounds."
"29-M-Peru. You have to visualize the three of us to really understand why I felt shame. An obvious foreign 6 foot balding white man with two short and young Peruvian women. All of us talking to each other closely, sharing food. Both of them kiss me or hold my hand and I notice someone looking at us "
"29-M-Peru. I have been communicating with a dozen or so different women over the last day or two that I have matched with. Previously not even but a couple of months ago when I used these apps last the first questions were generally the same: where are you from? do you speak Spanish? why are you in "
"29-M-Peru. I have been dating a fellow ex pat for the last couple weeks, she is a South Korean 28 y/o who is extremely kind and empathetic and I find very easy to be around."
"Man, 29, White, American in Peru for 5 years due to work. Dating is a new occurrence started around 3 weeks ago. Courtesy of dating apps I have been juggling numerous women and going on an average of 2-3 dates every weekend."
"wiping the slate clean was easier in Japan than Peru. Fujimori still hangs heavily over than country, creating a political dynasty which has corrupted the political process."
"29-M-Peru. At this point we are fully cohabitated."
"White Male - 29 - Peru. The younger woman, a 21 y/o, is who I relayed this information to."
"29-M-Peru. I really do not want to do this as I know it is just going to be extremely stressful."
"29-M-Peru. I am not one that particularly likes casual physical tough of any kind beyond a handshake... This became sort of a problem when I moved to Peru 5 years ago for work as the people here are very much 'touchy feely' however thanks to COVID this died down. At present the customs are not expec"
"29-M-Peru. Over the last few months I have dated multiple women all of whom were Spanish speaking Peruvian natives. I have had my successes and failures but I have tried to stick to this 'rule' I had self imposed."
"29-M-Peru. Since I have started dating some 6 months or however long ago I am not anymore happy. Quite the opposite. I am stressed all the time."
"29-M-Peru. He is a fast friend of mine, very neurotic, and he quite literally has a phobia of women."
"29-M-Peru. This has spawned likely because of our past. When we were dating early on I did not cheat as we were not committed but I was seeing other women."
"29-M-Peru. To clarify I myself do not think there is any 'too far gone' or 'pathetic' age. People operate on different principles at different timelines is my belief."
"29-M-Peru. My current, very new, girlfriend has caused some friction immediately into our relationship with her alcohol usage."
"maybe it's because I'm Peruvian and mining is one of the Powers that Be, like: best case scenario you bought a gold chain from a legal mining company that just bought the government and is destroying a beautiful Andes mountain but at least the locals are getting paid minimum Peruvian wage (300$) whi"
"it would be really fun but probably end in murder and we'd probably get like a Wild Wild country type documentary made on our cultish antics"
"White Man-29-American working in Peru. I have been seeing these two women for nearly two months time. These two were of a batch of a half dozen women I had met through dating apps."
"29-M-Peru. I have recently gone through a rather nasty breakup, my first in general, with a woman who has only show how ugly she is more and more."
"29-M-Peru. I am off now but that was all incredibly irritating. The worst of it was my own boss scolding me and telling me how polygamy is illegal in Peru and punishable by jail time. He also went on a whole diatribe about the 'anti Christian' aspect of my actions."
"30-M-Peru (for now). The political violence is getting out of hand. New Years was not full of carnage as I anticipated but yesterday a man was publicly shot in the back of the head by some sort of private security or mercenary soldier. I have not gone out for anything other than work and to stock up"
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