"I think of myself as frugal too but more in a Red Wing, J Crew kind of way where I think of quality clothing (although J Crew quality is iffy now) as more of an investment"
"So when I finally started making some money of my own, I bought him a really nice Carhartt jacket and some red wing boots for Christmas as a thank you for his support of the years. I was so fuckin proud of myself lol. He killed himself a few days later."