The notion that men's dating struggles are entirely their own fault and can only be fixed through relentless self-improvement and checking superficial boxes.
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"I feel it's important to critically examine the idea I've seen promoted heavily, which I call the "hyper agency of man." This is the notion that a man's dating struggles or lack of success with women is entirely his own fault - that if women are not attracted to you, it must mean there are deficienc"