Mentions (26)
"I've seen things now- comments with people listing the symptoms of BPD with existential malice in the background, what appears to be humorous posts with obscure sociological vocabulary that only bewilders me, posts of an incel spilling his unfiltered conscience- that have shaken me to my core."
"Just something to think about before you get involved with a BPD art hoe. I have 4 siblings and literally none of us are okay."
"We got married far too young for various stupid reasons. Together 5 years, divorced after ~2.5. It was the right move tbh, but she ended it in the nastiest way possible and blamed it on her (undiagnosed) BPD."
"I'm convinced all the support groups for victims of narcissistic/borderline abuse are full of projecting narcs and borderlines. My ex accused me of having BPD, but he was the one that cheated on everyone he'd every been with"
"Get reprimanded for missing something or making a mistake? Your mid-50s female boss is just jealous of your wrinkle-free face and collagen production ability. Extremely BPD behaviour, I'm shocked at just how popular this idea is to normies."
"You're not autistic because you have fascinations, every girl you know doesn't have BDP, and you're not 'schizo' because you read articles about the CIA... I swear the people here act like they're above the type of self-diagnosis that's common online."
"I've been attending a PHP (partial hospitalization program) group for the past two months now and have encountered a lot of *very* interesting people, but the most interesting has to be the she/they BPD spazzer that joined shortly after I did."
"With the influx of BPD posts on here in the past few months though, I recognized some patterns and actions that made me feel resentment and caution towards my now ex-gf of 1 year. She would always resort to self-flagellation when criticized and make me comfort her."
"She seems like she has BPD. She also works in the fish department at the supermarket and never takes off her hair net."
"The DIY houses I've encountered are full of BPD drama-fueled emotional vampires who think it's a flex/right of passage that they Narcan their roommates on a regular basis."
"yeah yeah yeah We get it they have A1 pussy and they serially cheat and they make everything up"
"I have an ex with BPD and every time I'm in my hometown im on the watch to not cross paths with her because if she looks at me she remembers I exist and then starts asking people about me. There is something so undignified about this situation like I wouldn't file a police report but I wish she coul"
"Because I've seen a lot of discussion around it on the sub, and because I have it, i thought I should clear up some misconceptions if I can 1) it is an incredibly painful disorder. It leads you to destroy your own life. I'm lucky that I never took my destructive impulses on people I love, but a lot "
"Another house, another trust fund kiddie housemate who of course is diagnosed with BPD, complains constantly oh woe me while never ever having to worry about financial issues, has zero understanding about the value of money while trying to borrow money from everyone because they went through 90% of "
"she is sexless and hypersexual at the same time, repulsed and obsessed with herself. being BPD is seen as aspirational. really, it is just another coping mechanism for the self-loathing that is inbuilt into every woman, one that occasionally rears its head as manifests as narcissism."
"I hate when I'm at McDonald's or Starbucks, and the other people there don't get that I'm eating it as a 'slice of life' of the character I'm playing, or that I'm making a comment on the full familiarity of American life in the flyover states etc... like no bitch I'm not fat!!!"
"My father was emotionally distant, and my mother was extremely neurotic and I'm fairly certain has bpd. Since my father was unavailable for her, I became her object to project all of her feelings on to, which left no room whatsoever for my own emotional state to be validated."
"I legit thought BPD stood for Bi-Polar Disorder for the past 4 years, basically ever since I saw the acronym for the first time. I legit only found out cause yesterday somebody here asked if BPD stood for Bipolar and somebody else corrected him."
"having bpd is hard and it kind of sucks seeing it be used as a lazy polemic or indictment of ppl with bpd but then I remember i'm hotter and more interesting than you f4ggots and most of you are getting/have gotten your emotional lives torn apart by bpd ppl and/or otherwise constantly thirsty for co"
"She shared with me she was diagnosed with BPD and I think I can just be too sympathetic to a fault."
"She's a pretty rational person in general but as a partner she's got all the signs: to start, she's a really passionate romantic partner and every bit of intimacy is really intimate, but good feelings can change on a dime if there's anything said or anything happens that can interrupt things, it com"
"my venus is in leo and it's normal venus in leo behaviour!!!!!"
"Unfortunately, I fell for the dating a BPD girl meme. We were together for almost 3 years, and then she got pregnant with some other dude's kid. I thought it was mine for 4 months until she fessed up and told me everything."
"Her brother later told me she had been diagnosed with bpd and was in treatment . Last time I checked she was referring to herself as an empath in her instagram bio . Since then I have met multiple people who claim too have too much empathy and they inevitably fall into one of two categories : _ the "
"My girlfriend is BPD, and she doesn't ever use her condition as an excuse. On the contrary, she tries hard to never use it to her advantage. She's one of the most thoughtful and self-aware people I've ever known, but the issue is that she's persuasive in her attempts to show me how I'm not actually "
"Lost my partner to suicide in August 2023. I'm just drunk and sad. She was a BPD girl, but full of life and creativity, Please be kinder to BPD girls, they have had a rough life. They are worthy of love and kindness."